National Hospice Month is acknowledged and celebrated every November by hospitals, nursing homes, adult living facilities, administrators, doctors, nurses, nurses aides and of course hospice providers and programs. Like Social Workers Month and Long Term Care Week, it spotlights a population of clinicians and caregivers who otherwise perform extraordinary jobs without fanfare.
When the major text of internal medicine says I am supposed to be distressed when I am confronted with a patient with a terminal illness, how am I supposed to help the patient deal with his or her distress? When the terminally ill are equated with the hopelessly ill, how can I give hope to my patients at the end of lifewhen Ive already been taught that they are hopeless? The goal in writing 20 Common Problems was to diminish or even erase the distress physicians feel when faced with a patients terminal illness, so that physicians are better equipped to help those patients and their families at the end of life. With my associates and co-editors, Dr. Neal Weinreb and Dr. Joel Policzer, I attempted to make the book a “who, what, where” of care at the end of life: to teach physicians to recognize when a patient needs end-of-life care, to work with the patient and the hospice team, to know theyve made a good decision and to understand the care being given. End-of-life care is unlike anything else taught in medical school. In fact, it is still not taught in most medical schools. But when a physician understands it, even feels a part of the hospice team, the result is a realization that it is not “doing everything” that makes the difference at the end of life. It is the simple and methodical application of sound hospice practices and extraordinary human kindness administered day by day, one on one, without fanfare. And that is what we celebrate, every day at VITAS and every November in the rest of the world. To request a copy of 20 Common Problems in End-of-Life Care, call (561) 364-1479 in West Palm Beach, (954) 486-4085 in Broward or (954) 437-5433 in Miami-Dade.No problem is more distressing than that presented by the patient with an incurable disease, particularly when premature death is inevitable. . . . The physician also must be prepared to deal with guilt feelings on the part of the family when a member becomes gravely or hopelessly ill.















